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Stanek Jakub visual artist

To do list - To  father a son, to build a house, to plant a tree

2017-...

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The Ball

2025

A light, child’s ping pong ball becomes a vessel for a weight no child should

ever have to carry. Inside it are fragments of burned court documents  re-

cords of a conflict into which the child was drawn.

A symbol of carefree play takes on a new, layered meaning: its delicate form

stands in stark contrast to the trauma hidden within. The ball evokes the

image of a child being “bounced” back and forth between adults caught

in a process where every decision deeply affects their emotional world and

sense of safety.

The final act of burning the ball becomes a symbolic closure of that painful

chapter. What remains is an empty space  open to the possibility of rebuil-

ding, understanding, and healing.

How long have I been a dad

How long have I been building this house

2025

Numbers handwritten on the surfaces of the bricks function as a record of

time: the days of being a father and the days spent building a house. Time

is treated here as a fundamental construction material, equal to brick and

expanding foam. Each number marks a unit of duration a repeated, every-

day act of presence and labor that accumulates to form a structure.

The bricks, a traditional building material, are deformed and partially bound

together with expanding foam a provisional, technical substance used to fill

gaps and stabilize construction. Rather than building form, the foam exposes

fractures, absences, and misalignments. The work thus reveals a tension

between permanence and temporality, between architectural intention and

the lived process of building.

The numerical inscriptions introduce a biographical and performative di-

mension. Home and fatherhood are not presented as the result of a single

decisive act, but as the sum of repeated actions unfolding over time. The

work interprets masculinity as a process of accumulation grounded not in

symbolic declarations, but in counted days, sustained gestures, and assu-

med responsibility. The structure becomes a record of duration, in which the

materiality of both the house and the relationship is built from time itself.

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Structure

2025

A single brick is cut and reassembled using dozens of small metal nails. A

traditional building material is disrupted, and its stability no longer relies on

mass, but on a dense network of fragile connections. Each nail on its own

remains insufficient; only their accumulation allows the structure to hold.

The work refers to the idea of the home and masculinity as an internal con-

struction  not monolithic or inherently stable, but sustained through a sum

of small, often invisible acts of responsibility, presence, and care. Structure

exposes the tension between material solidity and the underlying fragility of

what is meant to support what matters most.

The core of the bond

2026

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The work presents a fragment of matter suspended within a delicate, geometric structure made of thin metal rods and joints. The heavy, irregular coreresembling a piece of rock or a charred remnant is held in space not by

mass or solidity, but by a precise network of tensions. The construction does

not protect or enclose the object; instead, it supports it point by point, at the

threshold of stability.

The Core of Bond examines the nature of connection as a relationship based

not on full fusion, but on a fragile balance between weight and trust. The

central element functions as a metaphor for experience, trauma, or emotio-

nal burden that cannot be carried alone. What is most compact and “heavy”

exists only through a system of connections thin, vulnerable to rupture, yet

collectively capable of sustaining the whole.

The work refers to human relationships, fatherhood, and masculinity under-

stood as tension-based structures that require constant attention, precision,

and balance. The Core of Bond reveals that the durability of a bond does not

arise from the strength of a single element, but from a configuration of dependencies in which every point of connection matters.

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Hunter

2025

A miniature fishing rod with bait, cast in resin, refers to the long-established

image of the man as provider. For centuries, fatherhood has been defined

through the obligation to secure material stability and safety for the family. The worm on the hook becomes a sign of care, but also a materialization of the weight of social expectations.

Encased in resin, the fishing rod reveals how deeply this model has been fixed and how it restricts the understanding of fatherhood to an economic role.

The work challenges this framework, pointing toward an alternative vision of

masculinity and fatherhood based on presence, emotional engagement, and

relational responsibility. The rod functions as a question about redefining care beyond the act of “providing” alone.

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Genealogical lineage

2025

A miniature genealogical tree, made of thin sticks and preserved in resin,

symbolizes the family deeply rooted, yet shaped by social ideas about

roles. The branching roots refer to the father’s act of “planting a tree”  the

desire to build a solid foundation based on values and relationships.

The resin highlights both the strength and rigidity of this structure frozen in

cultural patterns that often overlook the emotional role of the father.

This work offers a new perspective: fatherhood not just as a biological func-

tion, but as an emotional bond built on presence, care, and shared expe-

rience. The tree becomes a symbol of the fight to recognize fathers as equal,

loving, and active members of the family.

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Genetic material

2025

A miniature fishing rod with bait, sealed in resin, symbolizes the traditional

image of a man as the provider. For generations, fathers have been expected

to secure food, safety, and stability for their families. The little worm on the

hook represents both care and the pressure of those expectations.

Encasing the rod in resin shows how deeply this idea is rooted  but also

how it limits the meaning of fatherhood to just a financial role.

This work suggests a broader view: a father can be present, caring, and

involved in a child’s life. The fishing rod becomes a question about a new

model of masculinity  based on closeness and shared responsibility, not

just providing.

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To plant a tree

2026

A dried and charred bonsai tree cast in resin functions as a museum relic of

masculinity a frozen trace of an unfulfilled obligation. The object refers to

one of the canonical tasks inscribed in the cultural “to do list” of manhood:

planting a tree. Suspended in resin, the bonsai becomes evidence of an in-

terrupted process of growth, exposing the tension between an inherited ideal

and lived experience. The act of preservation transforms the organic form into an artifact, attempting to conserve meanings that have lost their vitality and questioning the durability of models of masculinity built on symbolic gestures rather than sustained care.

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